Science Supports the Need for Casual Sex Flirting

Casual sex movies make it all seem so easy. Two people meet up at a bar, share a quick drink, and then are seen passionately bouncing off hallway walls as they try to get each other’s clothes off. But is it really all so simple? And if it is, then why aren’t all bar room hallways bursting at the seams with horny hookups? The answer is…they’re not and the science behind attraction and a woman’s desire for casual sex gives a little insight into why.

In several studies, the original one conducted in 1989 and a follow-up one conducted more recently, both men and women were asked if they would have casual sex with a platonic friend – a friends with benefits arrangement – or if they would have casual sex with a complete stranger. In both studies it showed that men were more likely to agree to a quickie than their female counterpart. So if you are a man and want to get a more favorable response to the question, “Will you go to bed with me?” there are few basic things that you need to understand about the women who are most likely to say yes.

Whether you meet a potential partner through an adult online dating site, through a friend, or in a pub, the basics of getting that person to agree to a one night stand or no strings attached relationship include a little flirting. Yes, even with casual sex you need a little flirting.

Science has suggested two theories explaining what women look for. The first theory reaches back to our caveman roots and the evolutionary reasons for having sex – survival of the species. In this explanation the woman needs to be choosy about their hook up mate since they expect them to stick around to help change diapers and buy formula. They want a man they can depend on.

Steamy Moves You Haven’t Tried – Sex Positions That Give Orgasmic Pleasure Every Time

Listed below are some of the best and most steam-filled moves you haven’t tried in a very long time or ever! There is no need to be shy or bashful especially right here as the only ones that are going to benefit from these great sexual positions that will give her an orgasm not just every once in a while but every time, are you and your partner. For so many years many people have tried various sexual positions some with greater results and some with fizzled out attempts. What we have accumulated here, just for you, is a set of positions that do not have to be used in the confines of the bedroom yet this is the most likely place to find these steamy moves!

Priming the Night of Passion

There are adult-rated movies that serve a purpose for priming the night of passion and other sexual exploitations between partners that have actors who are physically fit and have the luxury of many takes to get their leg over her neck. Do not ever be dismayed or disenchanted when you cannot exactly mimic the sexual positions that you just witnessed on the movie in the comfort of your own bed with your wife or lover. The secret is to get as close as possible to that sexual position that you and your partner never tried before and that is enough for both excitement and novelty.

Reignite that Interest in Sex

There is some good news that will allow a husband to reignite that interest in sex and even teach the wife something new in the realm of sexual positions. When in a loving relationship it is vastly important to make certain that the partner feels as if she was the only reason for you’re existence and being. By demonstrating and taking a vested interest in not just the physicality of the moment but also how she thinks, feels and reacts to certain issues while in the bedroom. Everyone loves to have a little attention given to them and who is better-suited for that amount of selfless interests than your beautiful wife?

Mr. Sperm to Mrs. Egg

In order to try some steamy moves tonight, that will definitely get her interest and will tell her that you are the man and that you are on the case, have a look at two of the most favored in the world today. They have been around for a while yet many couples do not even attempt to do any of these since the missionary has taken over their life and not in a good way. If the sex is only for the procreation of man and two initiate and introduce Mr. Sperm to Mrs. Egg them by all means have your wife lay on her back raise her legs ever so slightly and procreate. If on the other hand the relationship has fizzled a bit in the bedroom and you as well as your partner knows that a new and interesting yet safe to practice sexual position may just be that spark of encouragement the relationship needs, and then alter that position, greatly. Take a look at it this way, the sexual positions don’t cost a dime and no one else will see them if all goes wrong which nothing can really go wrong, right?

Premature Ejaculation

Barring issues that are no secret going into a relationship such as premature ejaculation and/or the inability to have an orgasm in certain instances, there are no secrets between a man and wife in bed so try out the new positions and see her face light up as she revels in a great orgasmic feeling of bliss!

• Butterfly Flying – Have your partner lean against the wall and raise her legs as high as you can in the air. Position her comfortably with the pillows so that her pelvic area is raised up enough to match up with your pelvic area. Nature will take over as what the next steps are in detail.

• Figure 8 – Very close to the missionary position but with a high twist! This time the man lies on his back and a woman grinds up on top. As you both grind towards orgasmic climax have your partner lean back as far as she can and start making butter if you know what I mean!

Bonus Tip: If you really want to satisfy your girl all night long, there is a proven step-by-step technique that can help. You can cause 2-4 explosive orgasms EVERY NIGHT!

Fifty Shades Paves the Way for a New Young Adult Novel

Fifty Shades of Grey’s BDSM theme and sexual content may be too much for young adult readers, but it has provided the platform for an up and coming author to achieve success by creating a “toned down” version of the romantic relationship of Christian and Anastasia. Warner Bros has been chosen to make the movie version of the self published e-book, later picked up by a publishing house, Beautiful Disaster. Novelist Jamie McGuire modeled this book after Fifty Shades, detailing the tumultuous relationship between a college student and her domineering crush, but minus the kinky-sex and S&M. Following in the path of The Hunger Games and the Twilight, this novel turned screenplay takes an adult style story and makes it appeal to a younger audience. The audience for these types of movies and books creates an opportunity not only for aspiring authors to find their niche but also for a huge payoff.

It appears that romance stories are not enough anymore and that there must be a conflict, and a little naughty interaction, for them to be popular. With all three of the successful titles preceding Beautiful Disaster, there is at the heart, a huge hurdle for the main characters to get over in order to have the love they desire. Fifty Shades and the two other books in the trilogy provide not only the conflict of opposing worlds, but also the juicy details of Christian and Anastasia’s bedroom activities. The question is: will Beautiful Disaster live up to the demands of the success of its big sister?

One thing is for sure, Fifty Shades of Grey is much too racy for young adult readers, but as times have proven, these readers are hungry for more mature content… now more than ever. With each passing decade, children of younger and younger ages are becoming desensitized to violence and sex. Movies, television and fiction that is supposed to appeal to a young audience is inundated with adult jokes, violence and sexual innuendos, claiming to be more fun for the parents and meaning a bigger paycheck from the box office. Unfortunately, kids are not blind to the changes and are picking up on much more than they used to, nothing gets by wide and curious eyes. As the movie version of this young-adult novel comes to fruition, there will be a difficult task for the producers to keep from making an adult film with a young-adult rating.